There are times when instead of going forward full speed, we need to back-up. Just like the brake in your vehicle is there for a reason, so is reverse.
Sometimes we just have to stop. Back-up, then go again.
When your life is out of control or you are feeling sorry for yourself, you are headed toward a cliff.
Feeling sorry for ourselves is like standing on the edge of a cliff….Stop! step back!
Look for Jesus, He is there! 
And if you need to cry….do it on his shoulder!
Prayyior's God Talk 